Iraqi newlyweds arrive home for a wedding party after a photo-shoot at a Baghdad studio. [Zohra Bensemra/Reuters]
Iraqi officials said thousands of marriages between couples of different sects and faiths were registered this year, an indication of the success of national reconciliation efforts.
"More than 14,000 cross-sect marriages were registered in 2012, a record number compared to 2011 when only 8,000 mixed marriages were registered and 2010 which had 3,400 occurrences," said Salem al-Karkhy, chief judge of Baghdad's personal status court.
"These marriages often take place between young people, particularly university graduates aged between 25 and 35 years old, which is a good indication that Iraqi families with a solid foundation are being formed and cannot be separated on the basis of religion and culture," he said.
"These marriages are often the result of a love story between the two parties, which bypass all ethnic and sectarian differences," al-Karkhy said.
He said the families of such brides and grooms come to court in harmony and understanding.
"We believe this will reinforce and strengthen the social fabric in Iraq more than ever before," he said, adding that the decline in violence and sectarian strife bolstered these types of marriages.
Government officials and religious leaders welcomed the return of mixed marriages in Iraq following a decline in recent years due to terrorist operations.
"This phenomenon is a good indicator of the success of national reconciliation efforts in Iraq and the failure of terrorist operations to divide Iraqis to no end," said Amer al-Khuzaei, the prime minister's advisor for national reconciliation.
"Baghdad, Ninawa, Basra, Babil, Diyala and Anbar provinces recorded the highest numbers of mixed-sect marriages among Iraqis in a way that speaks of a united, peaceful society," he said.
Al-Khuzaei said mixed marriages include unions between Shias and Sunnis, Muslims and Christians, Sabaeans and Yazidis, and between Arabs, Kurds and Turkmen.
"Many people ask if it is right to have a mixed marriage, and we tell them that Islam is bigger and more merciful than to ban such marriages," said Sheikh Abdullah Fawzi al-Adhamy, the imam and preacher at the Omar bin Abdul Aziz Mosque in Baghdad.
"This is our faith, but terrorist groups distorted it in recent years. Thank God, today we see the revival of compassion among all, for religion is to God, and the homeland is for all," he said.
Al-Adhamy said the son of a well-known Sunni cleric married a Christian girl recently, and a Sunni girl married her Shia classmate.
"These are things we did not hear about in the past few years, but now the matter has become normal," he said. "It is an indication that society has recovered and begun to rid itself of the poisons of years of terror."
"Mixed marriages have been more successful than traditional ones because as we see it, it is a marriage of conviction, built on understanding, and therefore will last longer," said Sayyid Ali Kadhim al-Musawi, custodian of the Kadhimiyah shrines in Baghdad.
"Last week, we registered 13 marriages between Sunnis and Shias, and their weddings are scheduled for the first day of the coming Eid al-Fitr," al-Musawi said. "People have woken up and realised that terrorist groups did not bring them any good in the past, but instead brought bloodshed, destruction, killing, detonations and charred bodies."
Ehab Saad al-Dulaimi, 28, described his marriage to his colleague, a Shia, as the "right decision".
"Six months have passed since we were married, and we live in a house by ourselves in total harmony," he said. "What is more important, our two families have become very close friends, whereas before, they were opposed to this marriage. Now they have discovered they were wrong."
His wife, Hana Ali al-Rubaie, 25, said, "Religion has come as a mercy for humanity, not to cause bloodshed or separate hearts and bodies. We are now thinking of marrying my sister to my husband's brother, to make our intermixing stronger."
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عبدالله محمد عبدالله
2012-10-15
Division and difference will not build homelands. The sons of the Iraqi people should be aware of this and they must unite and renounce the divisions and differences of the past, and lend a helping hand to each other to build their home again.
حسن نعمه
2012-10-3
It is very important for the Iraqi people to overlook and tolerate all the past events between the sects and each other. They must also look beyond the past, think about the present and meet the highest and noblest goal, which is building Iraq.
علي عبداللطيف
2012-9-30
Sectarian strife and the different denominations in the same religion in Iraq as well as religious minorities have resulted in many fights and quarrels among the members of the Iraqi people. It often involved multiple murders that took place among Muslims who belong to the Sunni community and among other Muslims who belong and aid Shiites. However, both communities belong to the Islamic religion eventually, which outlawed unlawful killing of oneself without justification and assigned great penalty on perpetrators. Comeuppance is the judgment that Allah revealed to anyone who kills an innocent soul unjustly. The blood of Muslims is still running in the land of Iraq due to crimes of differences of Iraq's sectarians, specifically those quarrels and conflicts that occur between members of the two communities previously mentioned above. It is also worth mentioning that the most important teachings by the Islamic religion are dealing with pardon, tolerance and forgiveness among the people and staying away from the violence, bloodshed and violation of privacy, particularly among Muslims. It is never an Islamic Muslim who kills his brother because of differences in the sect or denomination. After what Iraq witnessed regarding the deterioration and destruction, the people of Iraq should now be united, both individuals and communities, and everyone should stand up as one man for their State and for their children, and everyone should work towards the same state of Iraq again and restore its prestige, ability, and place in the ranks of the world. Tolerance and overcoming of the past are the most important steps that every member of Iraq should take and all scientists, journalists and Senate will invite people to overcome the past, and turn all its events and disasters to work towards a better life for them.
صبري محمد الأحمد
2012-9-27
Religious tolerance and the end of the sectarian conflicts are among the main foundations of peaceful coexistence. In fact, Iraqis need to achieve peaceful coexistence in order to share the same fate and the same obstacles that have faced their country. Today, Iraqis are suffering from very difficult conditions. In fact, this great country has been suffering from tough and exceptional conditions. Thus, Iraqis must overcome these obstacles through achieving forgiveness between all people because this is a necessary step to develop and improve their society. Besides, they must turn the page of the past and forget all the religious conflicts among Iraqis. In the current time, Iraq is in urgent need to achieve that because it is in a very difficult period. Thus, the wise men in the Iraqi society must spread the culture of forgiveness among people through forgetting all the sectarian and religious conflicts of the past. This is for the sake of their country which is still among the greatest countries in the Arab World. This is also in order to achieve a stable and calm life and ensure a safe future for Iraqis.
ابراهيم علي يعقوب
2012-9-26
Sectarianism, like the rest of the traditional institutions and allegiances apart from nationalism, such as tribalism and ethnocentrism, has grown in Iraq due to the security and political vacuum that exist in the country as a result of the weakness of the institutions of the state and the civil society organizations. The occupation has encouraged other forms of allegiances apart from nationalism, and it has incited this as an established and deliberate policy in order to set up the political institutions that it has built along the lines of sectarian ideologies. The sectarian groups in Iraq, with their affiliations abroad, have become an effective tool for foreign interference, which has disastrous consequences not just for Iraq alone but across the whole region. This situation has deepened the rifts among the Iraqis and turned them into sectarian factions. Iraqis are categorized based on their ideological affiliations, and they are divided into two main groups, namely the Sunnis and the Shiites, with the Shiites being described as affiliated to Iran, to which they have allegiance, while the Sunnis are described as affiliated to Saudi Arabia and they are loyal to the latter and to some other countries. Sectarianism has impeded development in the country, and it has become one of the established realities in politics and part of the intellectual and social activities in Iraq. Sectarianism is on the rise, and today it is going through its golden age as a result of the massive support that it gets from within and without the country. We need to adopt the principle of a renewed dialogue based on a culture of non-sectarianism and a sound patriotic education, and the success of this dialogue will require quite some time, but this is the most accessible solution and the most practical one and one that is capable of addressing this problem in a scientific manner in a way that will remove any fear of the unknown and in its place there will be peace of mind and the preservation of the historical peaceful coexistence that has been in place in Iraq since a long time ago.
علي
2012-9-19
The government must stop thinking about the positions and start thinking about the Iraqi people.
علي
2012-9-19
The government must stop thinking about the positions and start thinking about the Iraqi people.
محمد البياتي
2012-9-15
There is no problem for Iraqis to agree, but the issue is, when will the politicians agree?!
سید محمدرضا عماد محسن
2012-9-14
May God protect Iraq! May He protect the people of Iraq! May God bless the efforts of all Iraqis! I am an Iraqi and I am proud of it, though that I live in Iran.
ﻋﻤﺮ ﺣﺴﻦ ﻣﺤﻤﻮﺩ
2012-9-11
Dear Iraqi people, it is high time you overcame the days of fear, conflict and bickering among you. In fact, you should seek to address the strangers who threaten your security and safety. You are supposed to strive in order to restore the past position of your State. Iraq should be able to make development and progress so as to keep abreast with other countries. This appeal is directed to every individual living on the land of Iraq. In fact, every Iraqi could either agree or disagree with his or her fellow compatriots regarding religious, political and social issues. Nevertheless, the citizens should show forgiveness and tolerance. In fact, there should not be any discrimination between Muslims and Copts. There should not be discrimination between the Muslims sects. Indeed, the citizens from the various sects and religions should cooperate in order to develop their country. They must not seek other objectives.
ﺍﺑﺮﺍﻫﻴﻢ ﺣﺴﺎﻥ
2012-9-11
Iraqi soil is soaked with the blood of the innocent Iraqi civilians as well as the military. The latter are the victims of horrible massacres perpetrated by their fellow compatriots because of the religious, denominational, ethnic and sectarian differences. Such disputes led to many crimes, claiming the lives of a huge number of civilians. The innocent Iraqi civilians are deprived of their safety and their security. For this reason, we should urge the Iraqi people to overcome all the past disputes and seek to serve the interests of the nation through promoting patriotism and nationalism among the unified Iraqi community. In fact, the Iraqis are patriotic in nature. We must put an end to the era of conflict and disputes among the people of Iraq.
جبران عزيز
2012-9-3
Iraq has recently suffered a lot because of the conflicts between the Sunnis and the Shiites which claimed the lives of a lot of people because of this strong sectarian strife which has erupted as a result of the extremism on both sides that is in any case caused by a purely religious ignorance that reflects the disappointing state of the Iraqi people and the amount of disaster in which they are living. Therefore, we would like to call on the entire Iraqi people to overcome these problems and turn the page of the past so that Iraq will restore its former respect, strength and prestige. In fact, Iraq will reap from this sectarian strife nothing but sabotage, destruction and harm which will affect Iraqis only. I wonder whether it is reasonable that Muslims kill their brother Muslims and Iraqis murder one another. Everyone must respect the other party. At present, it is also necessary that everyone forgets what the other party has done to him. People must turn that page and overcome it so that they will be able to coexist in peace and prosperity which is certainly something necessary which all Iraqis should take care of. We should find a strong Iraqi national union around this reconciliation process so that Iraq will become secure and stable once again, wherein all kinds of tourism and prosperity will be active in addition to the trade movement. This will certainly bring a lot of wealth to the country and will serve the interest of the Iraqi economy in one way or another. This will be a positive factor in developing the country which currently needs all its faithful citizens who love their beloved land of Iraq which has suffered a lot because of dissension.
وجدي
2012-9-3
Sunnis and Shiites, in particular, are required to correct their mistakes, erase their disputes and put the good of their country above all other interests; they must be cautious and not be tricked by the other neighboring countries' efforts, which aim at tempting one side against the other. You must put in your minds the interests of Iraq as the basic goal, in order to develop and elevate Iraq. They must avoid all disputes and conflicts, try to solve them through joint committees that work together, and the members need to be from the two sects, to spare Iraq any sectarian conflicts that may appear in the future. Their main task is to take care of the Iraqi matters, not to be involved in any regional or neighboring disputes. Iraq's interests override all concerns, if they want progress for Iraq.
غالب سعيد
2012-9-3
Iraq has been through hard times in the last decade, during Saddam Hussein's era. The different sects of the Iraqi people, the Sunnis, Shiites and Kurds, were not in accord with each other. There was great discrimination and big conflicts among these sects, as also happened during the American invasion. After the Americans had left Iraq, the new constitution was written, a newly elected government was established, and the situation stabilized in Iraq to some extent. Thus, the Iraqis have to forget the past era, turn the page on it, and start a new era, where they will record their own national coherence and forget the conflicts and struggles among the various different sects. Iraqis must work hand in hand to build their own stable country, which possesses resources that need to be used well, so the Iraqi citizen can feel its results. But these benefits and incomes will not be tangible unless there is security and stability, resulting from cooperation and unity. All the Iraqis must support one target, which is Iraq's progress and rebuilding. It must be mentioned that there are Sunni, Shiites, and Kurds in Iraq; this has led to increasing the differences and disputes between each sect and the others, aiming at controlling Iraq and gaining power. In the end, this has led each sect to control one particular region, and that is a great and severe mistake that makes them distribute Iraq's oil and natural resources, turning Iraq into small states. This reduces the resources and lessens the chances of their being invested and gaining the profits. The Iraqi citizen expects to feel and enjoy the standard of living, which must be raised, as well as the individual's income.
نور
2012-9-3
The Iraqis must turn the page of the past and its bloody memories, that page which is full of envies and hatred between Sunni and Shiites. They must start a new page, a new era full of coexistence and understanding among each other. They must end the conflicts and strife, because this strife will kill no one but the Iraqis, and will destroy Iraq which is the home of all of them. So, all Iraqis must use their minds and never follow strife.
طلعت العراقي
2012-9-3
Iraqis must defeat strife and overcome the conflict between Sunnis and Shiites, because they are all brothers and belong to one religion and one country, that is, the beloved Iraq. Our Islam urges us to be tolerant with each other; it shows us that the basic rule is the diversity among peoples in order to make them get to know each other, not to kill each other. It is life's rule, so how can we shed blood just for having different opinions? We are all brothers, and whoever kills one soul is as if he has killed all of humanity; strife is worse than killing! This is our religion and these are its noble teachings, which build bridges among people to communicate across them. Let's start a new page together, where we forget our pains of the past and their consequences; let's stop the bloodshed in Iraq's body and cure this bleeding with our wisdom and minds, because it is the essence of this existence and it is the mind that God has gifted us with. So how can we follow the rage of our anger, forsaking the light of mercy? Iraq must be built by the hands of its people: Sunnis and Shiites, and the other sects. One hand can't work alone; we must collaborate to reconstruct this beloved home, which has suffered a lot. Let's build it and reach safety, for security is the most important pillar upon which reconstruction depends. Without powerful security, how can we start building what was ruined by terrorism? The police have got to arrest all the masterminds to get rid of strife and conflict among the Iraqis. Also, the media must exert more efforts to spread the tolerant image of Islam, to educate the Iraqis and to make them aware, so they do not follow extremism in all its forms. Extremism is like fire, and it is hard to extinguish it. These campaigns must be studied and planned well; they must be advanced and up-to-date, following the events of society, so as to be able to convince big numbers of Iraqi Sunnis and Shiites.
ابو ديمه
2012-8-31
If I was not Iraqi I would have wanted to be an Iraqi. I am Iraqi and I am proud.
سيد جبار
2012-8-28
There is no problem in this marriage. The most important thing is humanity, respect, understanding, love and harmonizing the society in serious relations.
زاهر البصام
2012-8-26
Congratulations to them for this big winning!
واضح الموصلي
2012-8-26
I suggest to the government that they give a financial reward to every Sunni that marries a Shiite and every Shiite who marries a Sunni…What do you think?!
زاهر البصام
2012-8-25
God bless their gracious aim to reestablish things in the right way to build a society based on the foundations of love and goodness for everybody.
مؤمن
2012-8-25
In the Name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful! "…We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another." God Almighty has spoken the truth!
صباح داودي
2012-8-25
May God protect Iraqis!
مرتضى
2012-8-25
This is Iraq despite all the haters with its Shiites, Sunnis, Arabs, Kurds, Turkmen, Christians and Sabians! I swear by God, I am proud to be Iraqi. May God protect Iraq and its people for Muhammad and the Family of Muhammad!
abbas
2012-8-24
This phenomenon exclusively distinguishes Iraqis who apply it from the far north to the far south since forever. The strong link is Iraq, there is difference between one sect and another. The satellite channels and some tabloids search and publish untrue news in the most difficult circumstances of Iraqis. We are one heart for the love of Iraq.
سهيل السامرائ
2012-8-23
The marriage between the colors and currents of our precious country is the effective weapon that is feared by terrorism, because it expresses the state of closeness and harmony among all the sects in Iraq.
عقيل
2012-8-22
This is a very good thing and the government has to enact laws to punish everyone that says racial or sectarian slurs that would to violence and disunity. Just like other countries, there has to be reckoning (punishment) against the bad words, writings, gestures or whistling, if it has racial connotations or insult to any religion, sect or country and its unity.
محمد العطوي
2012-8-21
Such marriage strengthens the ties of Islamic brotherhood and weakens the evil forces which want to keep the fighting in this society. Congratulations for this marriage!
بدون اسم
2012-8-21
Marriage is like a hard seed, we give it some water and then we wait for results. He (God) creates every living thing from water. We are some dust, seeds and water.
زاهر الجيزاني
2012-8-21
This is a definite proof of the strong Iraqi cohesion adopted by the educated cultured youth who are building the future of the nation and illuminating the road.
محمد
2012-8-21
A successful project.
ridha
2012-8-21
We don't support killing and bloodshed, yet mixed marriages have future harms for the faith, especially for the children. One of the spouses will have to give up his sectarian affiliation, which is not easy, especially for men. What will be the situation of the Sunni sister married to a Shiite man? Isn’t he a man of Tqiyyah, i.e. "religious dissimulation"? So, in order to call for his sect, he will do anything. The people of Iraq know more about it than I do. Religion is the Qur'an and Sunnah, according to the understanding of the Salaf, i.e. predecessors, of this Muslim nation.
سيدمهدي النوري
2012-8-20
Thank God for saving us from the hateful sectarianism. Here they are, the Iraqis proving to the world that they are united and inseparable.
عدنان نصر الله
2012-8-20
Peace be upon you and Happy Eid, i.e. the Muslim celebration of breaking the fast in Ramadan. We pray to Almighty God to gather the Iraqis with love and goodness and to make them abandon the sectarian feuds that came with the American occupation, which brought terrorism. May God never bless them! Peace!
نورهانوا
2012-8-20
My comment on this topic is: Please review the divorce cases in the Iraqi courthouses. They are happening in great numbers. Please pass strict laws with regard to the man who intends to divorce his wife for no reason.
سشا
2012-8-20
Very good!
طلب الهمة.. من مصر
2012-8-20
This is the best that has been done among the nation’s elements and a big blow to El Takfereieen and El Khawarej! Bless Iraq, its unity and its welfare!
aref
2012-8-20
This is our Iraq, which is never divided by sectarianism or Qaeda gangs! You will witness more of it with the help of the good citizens, God willing!
رائد
2012-8-20
It is not strange for an Iraqi to get married to another Iraqi who belongs to another sect! The strange thing is the time when this thing stopped! It was a short time and it ended!
ابن العراق الغيور
2012-8-19
As soon as Iraq gets rid of the Iranian occupation, everything will be more beautiful. Iran is the basis of the political and religious ruin in Iraq. Islam is free and has nothing to do with it!
حميد العكيلي
2012-8-18
Thank God for the blessings that united Sunnis and Shiites and united the hearts of believers.
مختار خميس الاحمر
2012-8-18
Hello, I support the loyal brave Iraqi people. A brother loving all Iraqis!
احمدالمصري
2012-8-18
This is what is required now in Iraq. The hearts of the Iraqi people have to be harmonious and united. Marriage is the relationship that achieves this because the link of marriage creates love and bonding between families.
عبداللة المنوفية
2012-8-18
O God! O Mursi!
مصطفى جواد العماري
2012-8-18
May God purify the hearts of Iraqis and make them one hand to build the great Iraq that all the neighboring countries have been working to destroy it by all means! All of us are peaceful Iraqis, whether Muslims, Christians, Sunnis and Shiites. We don't attack anyone or criticize a sector or belief, because what brings us together is more than what disunites us. We are the builders of the Civilization of Mesopotamia (land between rivers).
كريم كاظم
2012-8-17
O God, protect Iraq and the people of Iraq.
احمدعلىمحمدابراهيم
2012-8-17
This talking is not logic at all.
nano
2012-8-17
Marriage between Shiites and Sunnis, or vice versa, is normal because all of us are Muslims. Islam is not a religion of groups and sects, but the marriage of a Muslim man to a Christian woman is also permissible, yet I don't prefer it because it produces children confused between the religion of the father and the religion of the mother. Accordingly, they would not belong to any religion perfectly. The problem gets worse in case of divorce, the child remains for a while with the mother seeing her religion and worship, then he moves to the father for a while and sees a different religion and worship. So, they got more confused and they don't know where to belong.
هشام القيسي
2012-8-17
By God, the most important this is that it is away from the family of the husband and wife. This way, you will live comfortable because if problems happen (for sure it will) the two of you will solve it together, they will not grow. Ask someone with experience about it, he will tell you.
حيدر الشريفي
2012-8-17
This is a positive and good indication. It increases the social and familial ties inside the Iraqi society. In the future, this will delete the idea of sectarian, ethnic and background classifications which will gather under one flag, the flag of untied Iraq.
حيدر الشريفي
2012-8-17
This is a positive and good indication. It increases the social and familial ties inside the Iraqi society. In the future, this will delete the idea of sectarian, ethnic and background classifications which will gather under one flag, the flag of untied Iraq.
Iraqi
2012-8-17
With respect to all the opinions! Fool someone else with this talking (they are exaggerated)!
احمد الطائي
2012-8-16
It is not strange that the Iraqis feel harmony and love, and feel brotherhood among the various sects of the society. This was and still is the case in Iraq. I am a Sunni married to a Shiite. There is no problem. But the incidents and circumstances that Iraq has been through created a sort of sectarianism that was brought in by the politicians from the accursed Iran!
حسين
2012-8-16
Marrying a Muslim isn't a problem, but getting married to a Christian woman isn't accepted by Sharea; I wonder at the scholars who approve of and bless such marriages!